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Daily Gratitude Newsletters
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Daily Gratitude Newsletter
Volume 2, Issue 8 - August 2006
Putting Gratitude To Work For You
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"The Gratitude Rock"
This time we have a guest article by David Driscoll
which I think you'll find very inspiring!
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My oldest daughter asked me to help her with a Foster Child
project she was working on. What I discovered was when a
child turns 18 they “age out” of the system. This means they
are released from care. They are turned out to fend for
themselves. Most of the time they have no parents to guide
them, no money, no place to live, no job and no transportation.
Sounds too cruel doesn’t it? I was shocked and motivated to
help these kids have a better start on their life. It was during
this discovery process I met Lauren, my new teacher in
disguise.
Lauren was 17 years old and had been in the Foster Care
system since she was 8 and has been in 12 different Foster
Homes. Out of all the kids I talked to, Lauren was unique.
Not unique in circumstance but in attitude. Most of the kids
were fearful, apprehensive and not very trusting, understandably
so, but not Lauren. I asked her why she was so happy and
up beat. She told me about Mommy Jean, a lady she stayed
with when she was 10.
Mommy Jean told her that no matter how bad things are today
there's always a better day tomorrow. She told her to be
grateful for what you have today, because if you're not
tomorrow will surely be worse.Lauren reached into her pocket
and pulled out an old rock and laid it on the table in front of her.
She told me Mommy Jean gave it to her and told her this
was a Gratitude Rock. Each time she touched it or felt it in
her pocket she had to think of something she was grateful for.
Lauren said, “I'm grateful for another new day, the food that I
had for breakfast this morning, the teachers that come here
to teach me new stuff. I’m grateful for being able to walk
across the grass and feel the breeze on my face. I'm thankful
I get to go shopping this afternoon, I’m grateful to have a
warm place to sleep tonight, clean clothes in the morning.”
I thought, here's a young lady living in a County facility,
parents that didn't want her and she moves from place to
place carrying all her belongings in a plastic trash bag.
Top it all off, she's turning 18 in a few months and is going
to be on her own, with no money, no job, no place to live....
and she still finds things to be GRATEFUL for every day,
in fact several times a day! WOW!
After Lauren and I finished talking, we walked across the
yard back to the reception area. As we approached the
door, Lauren said, with a big smile, "I have a present for you."
She bent down and picked up a small rock and said "Here,
this is your gratitude rock, carry it with you all the time
and every time you touch it find something to be grateful for."
So I did. Well after the first week, and being grateful for my
children, wife, nice car, nice house, yada, yada, yada, all
the big things we are all grateful for, the second week was a
bit more difficult. It was in this second week I realized how
ungrateful I really was. I was all out of things to be grateful
for, or at least I thought I was.
Tuesday morning, I stopped by the grocery store to get cash
from the ATM. I was walking in the grocery store and
reaching for my wallet and I touched the rock and I heard
Lauren’s voice just as plain as day say, “every time you
touch the rock think of something you’re grateful for.” Huh??
My mind was miles away, being grateful was not on my list.
As I walked into the store, I was captivated by everything that
surrounded me. A machine that dispenses cash, beautiful
cut flowers, fresh apples, oranges, strawberries. I felt like
I’d never been in a grocery store before. I was not there to buy
anything but I walked thru the produce section and as I did,
I heard Lauren say, “just think of all the people it took to bring
these flowers, apples and strawberries to this store, look at
all the choices you have. Be grateful for your choices and be
grateful to all the people it took to bring them to you.”
I spent a good 20 minutes just walking around looking,
absorbing what it meant to grateful. I remembered last week
I’d rushed in the same store to pick up some items for dinner.
Today the same store looked totally different. Last week my
attitude was one of a customer in a hurry. I didn't pay
attention to anything that was going on around me. I paid no
attention to the people cleaning and stacking the produce,
the cashier checking out the groceries or the young man at
the end of the check out counter bagging my purchase.
What a shame, what a waste. Today it was different, today
I felt grateful for these people and thought how lucky they
were, they had an opportunity to be of service to their
neighbors. I was grateful for all the farmers the field hands,
people that loaded the trucks, truck drivers who spent their
days delivering all these goods. It dawned on me how
important these people were, all of whom are being of service
to their neighbors. Without them my choices would be
very limited.
It was during that second week, with that old rock in my pocket,
I decided to refocus my attention on what was right with my
world, my surroundings and circumstances. I realized I had
spent way too much time focusing on what was wrong or not
quite right. I was expending way too much energy trying to
adjust or change what I thought need fixing, when in reality it
really wasn’t broken; all I had to do was to say, “THANK YOU.”
If you’d like to help Lauren and other young teens like her,
visit HelpLauren.com
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That's something to think about, isn't it?
Have a great month. I am very grateful for each and
every one of you!
Peace and love,
Wes
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give us your comments.
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© 2006 Wes Hopper. All rights reserved.
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