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Daily Gratitude Newsletters
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Daily Gratitude Newsletter
Volume 1, Issue 4 - April 2005
Putting Gratitude To Work For You
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This month's article addresses how to be
grateful when things go wrong and it looks
like we have failed. Can we find good in
that? Let's see.
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"The majority of people meet with failure because
of their lack of persistence in creating new plans to
take the place of those which fail." - - - Napoleon Hill
"Failing, or Learning?"
© Wes Hopper - All Rights Reserved
The quote from Napoleon Hill is very intriguing
because it seems to indicate that having a plan
that fails is different from failing! As a matter
of fact, it even seems to indicate that success
can and is accomplished even though plans fail.
Why, perhaps having plans that fail is a
normal and customary event on the road to
success! Wouldn't that be something! Maybe,
instead of beating ourselves up, we could
actually find something to be grateful for.
Let's take a lesson from the world of direct
marketing. For those of you unfamiliar with
direct marketing, it's the world of long sales
letters, "junk" mail, TV infomercials and ads
that have a single purpose - to get you to buy
something!
There's no glossy corporate image advertising
in direct marketing, just compelling and
hypnotic words and images that are designed
to present so many benefits that you are
almost forced to whip out your credit card.
The holy grail of direct marketing is measurement
of results. Unlike conventional advertising where
little data is ever collected on effectiveness,
everything in direct marketing is measured,
tested and constantly improved. They use
a process called "split testing".
Every time someone in direct marketing
writes an ad, a sales letter, a web page,
or any promotion, they always have two
versions. Half the prospects get one, the
rest get the other. The two ads will have one
thing different - maybe the headline, or the
price, or the bonuses.
The results are measured - they know exactly
how many people responded to each one. The
best ad is kept, the other one is dropped, and
a new split test is run in the next mailing. Since
the winning version is kept each time, the ads
keep getting more and more effective.
Now here's the lesson for us about failure. In
direct marketing, no ad or mailing ever fails!
It's always a learning experience. They look
at the results and use that information to make
the next offer more effective. They do exactly
what Napoleon Hill suggests - they make new
plans to take the place of those which fail.
So what is there in your life that you consider a
failure? Can you look now and reframe that as a
learning experience and be grateful for the lesson?
Or what is there that you are afraid to try because
you might fail? It might be a career change, a relationship,
a bold business step out of your comfort zone. If you
tell yourself the truth, "I cannot fail, I can only learn",
would that help?
Remember, there's only a few things, like skydiving,
where you have to get it right every time! Most of the
time we can forge ahead, get imperfect results, correct
course and do it again. So when your results are less
than you expected, be grateful! You're now that much
smarter for the next attempt.
Sir Edmund Hillery didn't get to the top of Mt Everest
until his third attempt. He credited his success to the
lessons he learned on the first two tries. That's the kind
of persistance that Napoleon Hill had in mind.
So go do something scary this week!
Have a great month. I am grateful for each and
every one of you!
Peace and love,
Wes
PS - Remember to go to dailygratitude.com and
give us your comments.
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© 2005 Wes Hopper. All rights reserved.
Feel free to pass the above in its entirety to
anyone you wish.
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